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Hoopers On The Bus by Patrick Suessmuth Opening
note - be careful, this second article about Hooper, is not about Hooper
(being 'On The Bus). Hooper's changed. He's become two girls basketball teams. They are now my Hoopers (plural) on the bus going to a pair of away games. Hoopers
as you know are special to me, if not to you by now. Team
one are Grade 9 and 10 Hoopers. Our
Junior Varsity club. Team
two of Hoopers are the Senior Varsity club. A
nicer bunch of kids you'll rarely meet. These
Hoopers suffer...and they don't know it. They
labour, not play. They
strive, without fun. Winning teams play the game of basketball having fun. These Hoopers are not winning teams. There's
not a winning team in the school. The
school's got a losing mentality. No one
seems to care. No one
seems to see it (the losing mentality). Definitely
no one is doing a damn thing about it. Good
teams, with good kids, with winning skills, lose games they never
should. Hey, the situation is bad. Let
me highlight how bad it is. The
two teams of Hoopers on this bus are O and 12. These Hoopers KNOW they
aren't supposed to win. They’ve
had years of conditioning. It's over twenty years since either team has
won the four team league championship. They
have played numerous games which they'd have won IF the game had stopped
at the end of the third quarter. But what was happening, without a word
of a lie, was at three quarter time our Hoopers would look at the
scoreboard, see they were wining, get excited because this was NOT,
supposed to happen. So in the fourth quarter they'd go out and make
what's NOT happening happen. Another
loss. Another
fourth quarter let down. Another
game Hoopers let the opponent win. Hoopers
become good at saying, "We could a beaten them." I've
started to agree, "Ya we coulda, but we sadly didn't." Back
to the present. We're
on the bus. We're going down the road to a O and 14 record. Enough's
enough. As I've said before sometimes as a coach, "I am a little slow ." It's taken me three years of working at this school to realize no one cares about winning. A losing culture has developed. We know our place. As coach, I've finally got a case of the smarts. I've had it with Hoopers' attitude (and mine too). I'm
tired of coaching and losing. I've
got to try something. Someone's
gotta care. It's
attack time. I
prepare (prior to the bus trip). I have
a captive audience on the bus. Hoopers
are relaxed. Hoopers are
enjoying the drive. I call
for attention. They're
good kids. I get full
attention. Hoopers'
thinking, "What's this? He's
never done this before.” I drew
a deep breath, "Do ya wanta win to-day?" Hoopers's
heads nod up and down. The
odd half-hearted, “Ya-a-a.", is said. I
smile. They're watching
me... "OK.
Let's talk about winning. It'll
take a few minutes." Hoopers
relax -sit back. I
start my prepared and well planned presentation, "Who's heard of
the Pygmalion Effect?" Hoopers
silence is deafening. Visually
I see, "Huhs!" So
much for a well planned and prepared coach. I
recover, I ask, "Anyone heard of George Bernard Shaw’s play
Pygmalion?” Nothing.
By now Hoopers realize they've got the coach. Everyone's
attention's up. This is
suddenly fun. We've got the
coach. He's messing up
(again). I'm
panicking. This isn’t
going right. I'm thinking, 'Coach get out of here.'
Desperation is setting in. “OK.
Who’s seen the movie (I date myself), My Fair Lady ."
About
half have. Progress. "What’s
it about?" Slowly
the Hoopers tell each other the story line.
I prompt. I
encourage. I ask,
"When did Eliza become a Lady?" One of
the Hoopers helps the Coach out with a brilliant answer, "When she
decided she REALLY WAS a Lady.” "You
got it. Ya-a-a. Eliza didn't become a Lady, no matter how much Henry tried to
help her be one, until SHE DECIDED SHE WAS ONE." All of
us know how eyes will light up. Bulbs
will flash on - when a thought strikes home.
The Hoopers sat there looking at me expectantly, no lights
flashing anywhere. Message
missed. I've been expecting
this. I restate the, 'She
decided.' Here I
have a choice. I can go
with Norman Vincent Peale's book The Power of Positive Thinking or
the theory of the Self Fulfilling Prophecy.
I go with the latter. It
takes me toward BELIEVE, where I want them to get. Hoopers
and I discuss the Self Fulfilling Prophecy. The
concept of - if you don’t believe in something, it won't happen, is
developed. The
opposite is developed. If
you believe it's going to happen. It
will. Eyes are brightening,
but puzzled looks still prevail. Hoopers
are still lost. I work
the Hoopers. We
finally get, "Eliza didn't become a Lady 'till she BELIEVED she was
one." Bingo.
We're getting there. Coach to Hoopers, "Now let's bring this BELIEVE into basketball." They sit up. (Thank goodness the Coach is finally getting there.) They
all know by name the Hooper made "famous" in the Foul Shooting
tale. They've not heard this foul Hooper story.
(The Foul Hooper goes to another school in our area.) I tell them the Foul Shooting Hooper story. (I'm
on solid ground here, kids love a good story.) In the end Hoopers on the bus ask, "Coach, are you saying
one word, BELIEVE changed his foul shot?" "Yes
- but only after he had managed to mentally shift from non-belief to
truly believing in his shooting skills at the line.
Saying you believe, isn't enough. You've GOTTA MEAN IT. All
negatives must be exterminated. Put away. Forgotten.
Have you got what I'm trying to tell you?" Hoopers
on the bus are sitting up. Leaning
forward. Eyes shining. Heads nodding up and down. I
think, ‘By god they've got it.’ Now to
drive the point home so it affects them. "Who's
gonna win to-day?" A
chorus of, "We are". "Why?”
I get
lucky, "We believe." "You
what?" "We
believe." "Pardon”,
I say, cupping my hand to the side of my ear. "WE
BELIEVE." "What
do 'You believe?", hand to ear. "WE
CAN WIN TO-DAY." I love
my Hoopers. We
play our games. We
shout "BELIEVE" at each other during the games. The
home team fans pick up our 'crazy' spirit and shout "BELIEVE"
at us from the stands. They
unknowingly help us. We
win. We
lose (by two points to a far better team). We're
respectable. We've
learned. We're
suddenly winners. We
believe... The
corner's turned. Basketball
becomes a winning sport in a losing' school. A year later three of our
four teams go to the regional championships and one WINS it all. We
believe... The
coach is disillusioned. The
message's wrong. Believing
you can win - is good - but it is only a narrow corner gained on a
bigger believe... (Click Hooper Learns Believe below for the next article in this believe series.)
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